Stress Management
Stress is a normal part of college life. Feeling stressed does not mean you’re doing something wrong. It means you care, you’re challenged, and you’re navigating something important. The goal of stress management isn’t to eliminate stress completely, but to recognize it early and use strategies that help you regain a sense of control.
Test-Taking Anxiety Is Common but Manageable
Many students experience anxiety before exams. Your heart races, your thoughts spiral, and suddenly it feels harder to remember things you know you studied.
This doesn’t mean you aren’t prepared. Anxiety often shows up when your brain perceives a situation as high-stakes.
Coaching Tip:
Feeling anxious before a test is common. The key is having tools to calm your body so your brain can do its job.
Get It Out of Your Head: The “Worry Dump”
One powerful way to reduce anxiety is to get your worries out of your mind and onto paper.
Anytime stress feels overwhelming write down:
- What you’re worried about
- What you can control
- What you cannot control
This helps separate fear from reality and reminds you that you don’t have to solve everything at once.
You Don’t Have to Carry Stress Alone
Talking through stress can be incredibly grounding.
Whether it’s a friend, a Success Coach, vlog Counselor, or another trusted person, sharing how you’re feeling often makes stress feel lighter. Sometimes we just need someone to listen and remind us we’re capable.
Coaching Tip: Asking for support is a strength—not a setback. vlog students have access to FREE counselling services.
Use the Support Built Around You
You are not expected to manage college stress on your own.
Your support system includes:
- Instructors – Office hours are a great place to ask questions, clarify expectations, and reduce uncertainty around course content.
- Academic Advisors – Advisors help you review your schedule, balance your course load, and plan an academic path that fits your goals and life responsibilities.
- Learning Center & Tutors – Practicing skills and reviewing material with a tutor can build confidence and reduce anxiety before exams or major assignments.
- Success Coaches – Success Coaches help with study plans, time management, goal setting, and stress strategies.
- Access Services – Access Services provides support and accommodations for documented needs to ensure equitable access to learning.
- Counseling Services – Counseling offers confidential support for stress, anxiety, and emotional well-being, including tools for coping with challenges that extend beyond academics.
- Financial Aid Specialists – Financial Aid Specialists can help you understand your aid, navigate forms and deadlines, and reduce stress related to funding your education.
Everyone on your Success Team is rooting for you.
Coaching Tip: You don’t have to figure out who to contact on your own. If you’re not sure who to talk to, your Success Coach can help connect you with the right person or service.
Ground Yourself in the Moment
When stress feels overwhelming, grounding techniques can help bring your focus back to the present.
The 5–4–3–2–1 Method
Pause and notice:
- 5 things you can see
- 4 things you can feel
- 3 things you can hear
- 2 things you can smell
- 1 thing you can taste
This technique helps slow racing thoughts and calm your nervous system.
Release Physical Tension
Stress often shows up in the body before we notice it in our thoughts.
Try this:
- Drop your shoulders
- Take slow, deep breaths
- Relax your jaw by taking your tongue off the roof of your mouth
These small physical shifts can reduce tension more than you might expect.
Smiling Actually Helps
It might sound simple, but smiling has been shown to reduce anxiety and lower stress responses in the body. Even a small smile can signal your brain that you’re safe and capable.
Prepare Through Visualization
Visualization is a powerful way to prepare for stressful events like exams or presentations.
Try this:
- Picture yourself on the day of the event
- Imagine yourself calm, confident, and prepared
- Visualize each step going smoothly
If a negative thought enters, pause and start the visualization again. Over time, this helps train your brain to expect success instead of fear.
Know Your Triggers and Plan for Them
Everyone experiences stress differently. Pay attention to what triggers you, how it impacts you and then choose healthy ways to decompress:
- Listening to music
- Writing or journaling
- Playing sports or moving your body
- Reading or gaming
Reach Out When It Feels Too Heavy
If stress starts to feel unmanageable, talk to your Success Team.
Your advisor can help adjust your schedule, your Success Coach can help create a plan, tutors can help you practice, and instructors can help clarify content. You are surrounded by people who want to see you succeed.